I am intrigued by the power of our perception of our wealth or poverty. It is no use to tell a poor man in America that he is rich in Rwanda. Some may feel plagued by miserable poverty because a new car, or a vacation, or breast augmentation is beyond their financial means. Others feel ecstatically wealthy and secure because the entire family has eaten today, food has already been secured for tomorrow, and school fees have been paid for the present term. It may seem as though I am mocking the first group, but I am not. I am genuinely fascinated by the power and ramifications of perspective, and by the question of whether we are free and responsible in choosing a perspective.
I am also “fabulously wealthy” because my life is so full here in Rwanda. (Pinch me!) I am quite certain that I am where I am supposed to be, doing what I am supposed to be doing. It is a “sweet spot” to be.


Don't rock the boat!


Lunch was chomping on sugarcane, the usual fare. Superman even dropped in.
AND EVEN MORE FUN, I worked the fields for awhile with the local farmers, which they thought was hysterically amusing.



We met some VERY interesting people along the way.
And I again reflect upon the power and ramifications of perspective, and the question of whether we are free and responsible in choosing a perspective. Mark and I were ecstatic, and reveled in this life adventure. Someone else, whose perspective I must accept as equally valid, might have repeatedly questioned: “Are we done yet? When are we going home? I don't even like crocodile meat.”
But I am “fabulously wealthy”… remember? That was the subject, I think,… “fabulously wealthy” most of all because of family and friends, for whom my affection, admiration, and appreciation have greatly multiplied as I endure painful separation from them (especially on holidays like today). I have come to realize that the pain of separation is actually a very sweet thing, because it compels acknowledgment of and reflection upon great treasures towards which I might otherwise grow indifferent.
I have already noted that “poverty” is somewhat relative. “Somewhat”,… but there are also some rather objective, absolute criteria that I observe and reflect upon as I walk among the poor in Rwanda:
Has the person eaten today? How likely is it that he will eat tomorrow? (In an earlier blog post, I quoted my friend who pointed out that Rwandans know they must trust God for food; Americans generally do not realize this.)


One shoe is certainly better than none. Perhaps sharing with an older sister.

What is the house made of? Does it have a dirt floor (most common) or a concrete floor (which is an indicator of uncommon wealth)? What kind of roof does the house have, and what is its condition? Does the family huddle in the only dry corner during a heavy rain, as I have observed?
Does the house have a door or any window glass to keep out mosquitoes? What does a person do when they get sick or injured? Is any medical care accessible?

These are some of the questions that are constantly before me,.. questions easily answered by simple observation. The difficult, uncomfortable questions all pertain to my response, or lack thereof, to these simple observations. My first response must be a resounding “THANKS” for all that has been lavished upon me. My second response must be “GIVING”, for if I believe that “Faith without works is dead”,… what is “Thanks without giving”?